I am sorry to disappoint any surfer who thought this was going to be about awesome waves.
This is about the friendly wave which appears to be fading from existence.
We have years of highway construction behind us in my community and many years ahead. Traveling to work, the library on the other side of the highway, or even the supermarket takes great mental patience. The lanes change daily, and there are always jumpers. (Definition of jumper: someone who believes they are more important than anyone else on the road therefore they should not have to wait in a long line of cars when they can fly down a merging lane and 'jump' in front of another car.) #annoying
When you do let someone in because you are feeling generous, no wave is given as thanks. What a shame. I grew up watching my dad wave to the neighbors when he passed by (even the lift one finger from the steering wheel wave is enough).
These days most of the drivers do not wave, do not thank you, do not give that universal symbol to say "man, this construction sucks, but at least we are all suffering." #constructionisapain
I have observed and performed various experiments while I have ventured into the construction zone (it is everywhere). Me and a few drivers give a wave. The reaction of those receiving the wave are hilarious. They are unsure what to do with this sudden show of kindness. Most choose to do nothing. Some think it is a fist shake and return the finger. #awkward
Eighteen years ago in LA airport I saw a woman I recognized - Linda Hamilton - the real butt kicker in The Terminator (sorry Arnold). She saw me looking at her, and you know what this gracious woman did? She waved to me. I was thrilled, and of course, I waved back. #awesomeday
Catching a wave from someone is a good thing, and we should throw them out there first. You just may make someone's day a bit better.
